Mirage…!?

#RitaAbuul
I have discovered that love๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’– doesn't guarantee the success ๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿ‘Œof a relationship.

๐Ÿ’– Love cannot help you stick to one person all year round,โœŠโœŠ and on the other hand,โœ‹โœ‹ cheating๐Ÿ™๐Ÿ™ isn't always a product of not loving ๐Ÿ’–your partner๐Ÿ™‰.

Loving๐Ÿ’– someone doesn't guarantee not falling in love๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’– with someone else.๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿ‘Œ
Relationships ๐Ÿ’–work out mostly because of our head not our heart.

๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’– It works out because of our emotional maturity, ๐Ÿ™‰empathetic intelligence and self discipline as๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿ‘Œtime comes when you'll see๐Ÿ‘€๐Ÿ‘€ more beautiful, ๐Ÿ‘ตhandsome,๐Ÿšน romantic, intelligent, sexy, rich, ๐Ÿ’ธ๐Ÿ’ฐcurvy and God fearing people than the one you're in a relationship with.๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿ‘Œ

In those times๐Ÿ•œ๐Ÿ•œ, love ๐Ÿ’–will not help you; self control will help you, ๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿ‘Œemotional intelligence will come to your rescue and commitment will keep you going. ๐Ÿšถ๐Ÿšถ๐ŸšถWith those characteristics,โœ‹ no matter how you feel for someone else,๐Ÿ‘Œ the person you're committed to will rank first in your life.๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿ‘Œ

You think happily ๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€married people don't see better people than the ones they married?๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’–

You think they don't feel funny๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€ sometimes?

You think they don't catch feelings? They do!๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿ‘Œ

The truth's understanding๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘ that commitment is greater than feelings is a great one that does destroy that impulse.๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘

You can fall in love ๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’–with anyone, but building a relationship๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’– takes absolutely more than what attracted you to them and takes more than love.๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’–

We are too fond of loving ๐Ÿ’–when it's convenient and sweet.
We are too fond of loving ๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’–when love is there but that can only last for just the first 3-6 months of the๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿ‘Œ relationship.

After then, you'll realise that the feelings have dropped, it's now your๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿ‘Œ responsibility to make it work, not love's responsibility.๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘

Relationships ๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’–cannot be #readymade.

๐Ÿ™‰You have to build it and it's never always about love๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’–, it requires commitment and intelligence.

On the long run ๐Ÿƒ๐Ÿƒ๐Ÿƒin marriages, it's not just love๐Ÿ’– that keeps them together.....

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