With Johnson Esther:
For you my friend,
It’s easy to feel uncared for when people aren’t able to communicate and connect with you in the way you need.
And it’s so hard not to internalize that silence as a reflection on your worth.
But the truth is that the way other people operate is not about you.
Most people are so caught up in their own responsibilities,struggles, and anxiety that the thought of asking someone else how they’re doing doesn’t even cross their mind.
They aren’t inherently bad or uncaring -they’re just busy and self focused.
AND THAT IS OKAY.
It’s not evidence of some fundamental failing on your part…you need to understand that.
It doesn’t make you unlovable or invisible. It just means those people aren’t very good at looking beyond their own world. But the fact that you are – that despite the darkness you feel, you have the ability to share your love and light to others – is a strength.
Your work isn’t to change who you are, it’s to find people who are able to give you the connection you need. Because despite what you feel, you are not needy, you are thoughtful, and empathetic.
You are compassionate and kind. And with or without anyones acknowledgement or affection…
YOU ARE ENOUGH!
And when you’re choosing a life partner,you’re choosing so many thing’s including someone who’ll deeply influence your children.
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You cannot stop your woman from seeing handsome men,
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…Berates EFCC, others
ABUJA—THE Senate, yesterday, began a probe of over $3 billion spent since in 2005 by the Nigerian Ports Authority,
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1.Stop crossing the street for someone who won’t even stretch for you.(value is reciprocal)
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Eunice Dania set a record at the Department of Physical and Health Education, Obafemi Awolowo University, Ile Ife when she made first class;
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Be a man’s peace and he’ll always run to you.Give him headache and no matter what you bring to the table,
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BY MURTALA ABUBAKAR
According to multiple reports, Beyoncé and Jay Z have welcomed their twins.
People quotes a source close to the family as saying: “Bey and Jay are thrilled and have started sharing the news with their family and closest friends.”
The twins were said to have been born earlier in the week, according to Showbiz 411 .
Beyoncé in February announced on social media that she was expecting twins.
The ‘Lemonade’ singer had written: “We would like to share our love and happiness. We have been blessed two times over. We are incredibly grateful that our family will be growing by two, and we thank you for your well wishes. — The Carters.”
Beyonce cradled her protruding belly in the photo which broke a record for the most liked picture on Instagram.